Good sleep is not a luxury. It's not a premium club for those who finished all their tasks; it's a basic necessity. Without deep sleep, you're not a person—you’re a zombie with Wi-Fi access. And yet, when it comes to choosing a mattress, most of us pick it like we pick dish soap: cheap, flat, and preferably on sale. So it’s time to wake up (sorry for the irony) and understand that a recommended mattress can change your life—or at least your mornings. Here’s how to choose one, without buying the model that comes with all the extras but no back support.

1. Trust your back, not the presenter

That mattress from the commercial with the model spinning around like a princess? Nice visual, but where’s your back in the picture? Before you sign the purchase, lie down on the mattress like you actually sleep—including that weird position no one talks about. Check if your shoulders sink in properly, if your back doesn’t break, and if you can imagine yourself on it every night without dreaming you’re falling into a pit. If not, smile at the seller and move on. You're shopping for your body—not for a campaign.

2. Not every firm mattress is a superhero

Heard that firm is good? Great. Now forget it. A mattress that’s too firm isn’t support—it’s a simulation of sleeping on the floor. On the other hand, a mattress that’s too soft will swallow you like a marshmallow on steroids. The solution is balance: A recommended mattress is one that can support your back without breaking it and let your shoulders rest without being squashed. Want to be sure? Go for a mattress with a trial period. Nothing like four nights of tossing and turning to figure out if it’s true love or an expensive mistake.

3. Don’t underestimate the pillow—it knows more than you

No one knows why, but people spend thousands of shekels on a mattress and then buy a NIS 10 pillow from the exit aisle. Mistake. A visco pillow, for example, is a genius invention that adjusts exactly to your neck, as if it got a personal briefing from your skeleton. It helps you breathe, relax, and sleep without waking up with a neck cramp like you practiced bridge poses all night. The pillow is part of the sleep experience no less than the mattress—so yes, it also deserves respect. Or at least to stop being chosen by color.

4. Don’t confuse “good price” with “bad deal”

A mattress for NIS 699 including delivery, pillow, sheet set, and vacuum cleaner? Suspicious. Very. A good mattress is made from good materials, and that costs money. Check for a quality standard label, find out where the foam comes from, and what happens if something spills on it. And no—“nothing happens” is not a reliable answer! A quality mattress is one that lasts for several good years without warping like a bourekas left in a car. Also, check the return policy—a company that believes in its product will give you time to sleep on it, not just to sign.

5. Stop looking only at the mattress—see the whole picture

A bed is a relationship. If the base creaks, the sheets itch, or there’s light from the hallway shining straight into your eyes, even the best mattress in the world won’t help. Think of everything: a strong base, a fitted sheet that doesn’t move, a quiet atmosphere, a normal temperature, and preferably some peace of mind. Yes, that’s a lot of details—but you’re not just there to sleep, you’re there to recharge. Give your bed the respect it deserves, and in return, you’ll get mornings without pain, without fatigue, and without the urge to smash the alarm clock.

In collaboration with pandazzz